Do Chinese Women Find Western Men Attractive?

I can often tell which Chinese girl is into western guys from the way she talks (yeah, western guys read this and go out and look for them). n1 If this girl has a simplistic view of things and prefers to agree with public trends, she can't resist western men's images forced upon her by western media and movies. She seems to have a hard time to tell the reality from fictions and movies.

She often doesn't spend much time on newspapers. This girl is ready to believe whatever you are going to tell them about western men. 2 She has a high opinion of western countries because of frustrations she may have experienced in China (poor family, bad university degree, boring job, or some social disasters).

Her parents may not have a good time in China either and often reinforce her opinions that China is not good for her. She basically is looking for a way out of her poor situation.3 I agree with Annie Wang that 'village girl' has a thing for western men.

I am a village boy, so I guess I can say I understand village girls. It is true that some of my fellow village girls married western men and have western boyfriends. I am in NYC for a while.

Every time I went back to my tiny town and see western men. I was wondering why they came to this tiny s**ty town. Oh, his girlfriend brought him here.

n As a village boy, when I went to big cities, I am nothing. I struggled and worked hard to find a place in big cities for me. If you don't want to work hard and to live a poor life for a while but you still want to be the person who transfers him/herself from village nobody to urban somebody, you got to do something.

Marrying a western guy is one of many quick paths you can take.My cousin married an American man. She is pretty but she was not satisfied with what she had at the time.

She went to big cities and got a boyfriend from a rich family. They broke up, and she had to go back and had a local boyfriend who her parents won't let her marry. Her parents wanted to set her and me up (we are not siblings and share 0 % gene pool), but she thinks I am a village boy.

. She happily married to the American guy who looks good and is well educated by a Chinese standard and they went to U.S.

But there is a problem. The guy doesn't have a good job and his salary can barely make the ends meet. My cousin can't work here and her parents happened to become sick suddenly.

I was heart broken (you know why). I thought she may have a good life and she thought she found a good life. What if she married a Chinese guy?

With her looks, she can easily find a Chinese guy with a good job and at the same time handsome and funny. nI love U.S, but I hate that guy.

nI guess this is one example that western men can't help too much. Are native Chinese women especially attracted to western men?

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What are Serbian men like?

Having been born and living here for almost 40 years now, I can say itu2019s changed - for the worse (wars and economic crisis has compelled the best, the most able to leave the country, looking for a better life).So there is a great difference of and average Serb before the 1990 and today (after wars, crisis, embargo and mafia getting the power in the country ever since). The pre 1990 was the best country to live in IMO and the good traits of mentality/character were prevalent.

As for today:Generally speaking (which means average, with all the restraints that gives).Tall, (women say) good looking, mostly dark hair (500 years of Turkish occupation does that to a Slavic nation :) ).In terms of character - temperamental (compared to western/northern Europe), in for sports - either competing, or watching, or just playing, especially group sports with a ball.

Love to drink, but handle alcohol well - compared to most westerners (Irish and Russians are close :) ).The bad:In terms of character, Serbian society is now at the level of a spoilt puberty child - not ready to take responsibility for whatu2019s happening to them and their choices, blaming others, living and planning from day to day.Another u201cexceptionalu201d trait is that you can expect everyone to try to trick you.

People here prefer to screw someone for 50 euros in 45 minute work, than earn 100 euros after a full hours work so that everyone is happy.Finding a way around the rules and regulations is the national sport. Seriously.

Buerocracy (which is made by the same people) incourages that, since the rules are such you canu2019t do anything following them (book Catch 22 comes to mind). Being honest and of strong character is frowned upon here - which explains the high amount of corruption and crime.Easy to get into arguments and fight - even in the street.

Most people here in the street (both men and women) are frustrated, nervous. Love all the people, but wouldnu2019t like their daugher marrying a Gypsy, or a Catholic.The good:Sense of humor, friendliness (yes, it does contradict the previous passages - the country is full of contradictions :) ), ingenuity (improvise way out of problems, or difficult situations).

Many are still prepared to help strangers in need. A person lying/falling in the street will have someone approach and try to help, still, in spite of everything, unlike in some u201cwesternu201d countries - even if itu2019s u201cjust a drunk bumu201d.For a night out, you want Serbs (preferably Bosnians, but Serbs are close)!

For good jokes and conversation - also a close match between the two. For business - Germans (as the complete opposite). Genuinelly very good to strangers, especially foreigners - most people will go out of their way to help.

The good ones are really good - having lived/grown in such an environment, they are prepared for the bad, but have exceptional character to stay on top of it, not merge.Treatment of women/patriarchy:(Take it with a grain of salt - I am a man from Serbia)Iu2019d say, nowadays, women are treated with as much respect as men. People who disrespect others, will also disrespect women and vice-versa.

Same goes for those who pray upon the weaker - women are physically weaker. And a lot of people here tend to mistreat the weak, being weak is considered bad (primitive way of thinking?).

Most people I know share their load of housework. Yes, women are more likely to do the cleaning, but men are more likely to haul groceries, fix the house, car (low standard of living means people tend not to pay for proffessional services if they can manage) etc. I doubt women would have it the other way round - thatu2019s why we donu2019t even ask them - lol.

:) Seriously, Iu2019d say women have the same problems that the u201cwesternu201d ones have - ballancing bearing children and career.There is still some u201csocial pressureu201d that can be interpreted as patriarchal - man taking a leave to care for a newborn, instead of the woman, is legal, but almost no one does it. Still, Iu2019d call that common sense, not patriarchy.

Colour me conservative. :).