Learning About Our Bodies Through Masturbation

I have a confession to makeI didnt learn how to properly masturbate until I was 28.Sure, I humped a pillow or two-hundred back in the day but that technique barely earned a tingle of pleasure.Masturbation remained a mystery until well into my 20s and it took a really long time for me to discover and accept masturbation as part of a healthy sex life.

Id like to think that if someone would have taken the time to educate me even just a little bit about masturbation, I could have experienced all it had to offer at least a decade sooner.So listen here folks if no one else has told you this by now masturbation is nothing to be ashamed of!I may not have been able to enjoy the pleasures of masturbation during my first decade of adulthood, but hopefully sharing my experience will encourage others to begin their exploration sooner!

Masturbation is not so scary after allOnce I learned what masturbation was and all the different ways it could be performed (the options are endless!) and after a little (lot) of practice I realized its not so scary after all.Masturbation was the best way for me to learn more about my body and prepare myself to enjoy different sexual experiences.

It helped me better understand and accept who I am while also allowing me to explore different types of pleasure.Until I began experimenting with my own body, Id had no idea vaginal penetration gave me a different sensation than external clitoral stimulation did.Once I finally worked up the courage to try both simultaneously the orgasm I achieved was next level.

After I experienced these different types of pleasure and stimulation solo I began bringing my newly acquired pleasure enhancing techniques into the bedroom with my partner.Pleasuring ourselves is empoweringMasturbation helps us to learn more about what we enjoy and where we enjoy it. We become more comfortable and in touch with sexual pleasure and learn to take responsibility for it without or without the need of a partner.

There is so much freedom in self-exploration. Exploring ourselves first can give us the courage we need to then explore with a partner.Orgasms are Mother Natures Ambien without side effects!

Rashida JonesMasturbation is a beautiful act of self-love that provides us with the mental and physical benefits of released endorphins and leaves us feeling satiated and rejuvenated. Creating an adult toyboxUsing sex toys with a partner can be a touchy subject for some.There is still this stupid idea floating around that sex toys are used in solo-play as a replacement for a dick.

Thats a lie.Our marital bed often includes a vibrator, dildo, or plug and my husband's penis. Introducing sex toys into our sex life has helped spice things up and boost intimacy.

Im not aiming to replace his member by bringing a vibrator into our bedroom but I am giving myself a mind-blowing organism by enjoying a little clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex.Give it an honest tryFor relieving tension, making ourselves feel good, and getting off nothing beats masturbation. Theres no telling what we can learn about ourselves and our bodies when we give masturbation a try.

It truly is the safest sex we can ever have, and sometimes its also some of the best! RELATED QUESTION Which custom lighting design manufacturers would you choose to work with (as in, your preferred list of custom lighting design manufacturers for new projects, renovations, and/or construction of a new home and/or commercial property) and why? Residential and commercial lighting are different products.

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The onyx and hinoki veneer are sandwiched between glass. Boyd Lighting is a San Francisco Bay Area maker of high end lighting. Phoenix Day is another Bay Area custom manufacturer.

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