Why Does a Narcissist Ex Want to Destroy You?

Because he can. When you have lost all your sense of self to him he can tether you for weeks, months, even years with absolute confidence that you will be exactly where he left you , hoping for his return. Dropping to your knees ready to be his damn I have a hard time admitting this, his bitch.

And when he has got you to this point he comes back to feed only to leave you with less self respect than the time before. Then back to what the narcissist does when he is not devalueing you. Trust that there is some unfortunate person out there he is becoming bored with, probably the reason you were honored with a visit.

It has taken me eight years to understand why no contact is the only way for me to have any closure if you can call it that and somehow it feels like I am the bad guy here.

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Why do neighbors just want to be left alone nowadays? What happened to being neighborly?

This depends entirely on what country you are in, and what area of that country. The United States has changed dramatically over the years, as the media has made everyone afraid of their neighbors as potential criminals, especially for parents with children who worry about child molestation.Things are not this way in many other countries, though.

When I lived in Spain, everyone in our building was like one big happy family. People felt free to knock on your door and come in any time of the day or night. Sometimes it was a great thing, other times you just wanted to be left alone, but you couldn't excuse yourself politely.

I've heard people talk about what it was like in Soviet Russia when doors were left unlocked and neighbors would just wander into your flat like they all lived together, too. It's difficult to imagine in today's isolated world, but far more natural if you consider how native tribal people live

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Is Windows 10 now available for the Lumia 640 & Lumia 640XL?

update- the update has now been made available for Lumia 640 xl and can be ungraded free of cost.

If you've not yet updated, look for the upgrade advisor app in the store and use it to upgrade to windows 10 mobile. original answer-Definitely you can. In fact Lumia 640/xl will be one of the first devices to get the update.

Do note that the update is not yet available and you'll be notified on your device when it's ready to be updated(depending on your update settings). Please note that as of now the release date for windows 10 mobile for eligible Lumia devices is not known yet. The only official word is it will be released early this year.

Moreover the update time and availability will depend on your carrier. On a side note, if you're really eager to get it on your device, you can sign up for the insider program, download the insider app and read the terms and conditions clearly before doing so. Source- Microsoft official website, twitter channel Lumia India and other Microsoft related sites

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Why does a narcissist say "this is just who I am"?

Lets think about that together, shall we:) Narcissist love who they are. In their minds, why would they ever want to change? They are the greatest gift to this earth:) NOT!

but they think that. Their egos are so over inflated with arrogance and this condescending attitude. They see the other person as the problem, not them.

They are quite smart people; however this is usually used as a tactic to get people into their clutches. They will connive to get you and will go to extreme measures to make sure you start depending on them. As long as they dont take ownership for any of their actions, they can use this excuse.

This is just who I am, live with it or get outyour choice. Ive heard time and time again of stories where the narcissist is proud of the control they yield over another. I hope that this helped you sweetie.

Please know that they wont change and yes, they are who they say. Believe themStay safe and lots of love

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My ex girlfriend won't even acknowledge me, even when we see each other in public. She saw me and pretended to be on her phone.

Why would she act that way?

Anonymous So I guess no one was able to see my back story comment so I'm posting it here: She was my first serious girlfriend. I fell in love with her but the feeling wasn't mutual.

She broke up with me and it was bad but not horrible. We still kept in touch for a year after. Then all of a sudden it's like she erased me from her memory.

We haven't spoke in a couple years but I see her all of the time, on campus and out and about with her boyfriend. When she last saw me, she quickly took her phone out of her purse and pretended to call someone just to avoid me, I'm guessing. She always walks away or just walks right past me when we see each other, without a hi or hello.

I never did anything to hurt her so why would she act like this? Women, please answer!(And I'm NOT trying to get her back, just want answers/opinions as to why she won't be civil with me .

and on a psychological level, why she feels this way towards me?)

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While coding in C-we use int main() and return 0 in the end- and we run it, why doesn't the console screen stay?

When console applications have completed executing and return from their main method, the console window automatically closes.

This is an expected behavior.If you want to keep it open for debugging purposes, you'll need to instruct the computer to wait for a key press before closing the window.The fact that your output screen stays when using getch() is because getch() reads a single byte character from input.

It can be used to hold program execution, but the "holding" is simply a side-effect of its primary purpose, which is to wait until the user enters a character.There are other alternative if you want to hold the console screen.for windows:#include

h>int main() system("pause"); // use this at the end of the main function. 2. for any platform:#include

h>int main() printf("Press enter to continue.n"); // use both statements at the end.getchar();getchar() is a standard function that gets a character from the stdin.

getch() is non-standard. It gets a character from the keyboard (which may be different from stdin) and does not echo it.

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Will Python overtake Java as the most used programming language?

Maybe.Keep in mind that these two languages are very rarely in direct competition.Python is growing mostly due to the advance of machine learning and the prevalence of data analytics as well as robotics and automation, where it provides an abundance of excellent libraries and is easy to learn.

Java continues to excel in enterprise level applications and back ends, where it offers the best selection of libraries. It is far more suited to large development teams and is much better at scaling up as a business grows.So we've watched to growth of Java over the years and it continues along that same line.

But as data science moves forward we are seeing Python grow very quickly. For the most part, one is not intruding into the other's territory. I've seen applications that are written both in Java and Python so that they can each be used where they are best suited.

TL;DR;Python may overtake Java. But don't misconstrue this as a battle between the two, but rather, as different tools for different jobs.

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What does "ATGATT" mean to bikers?

As already answered, ATGATT stands for All The Gear, All The Time. That means wearing basic gear every ride, no matter the weather or distance traveled.Typically, this means appropriate riding boots, a jacket, gloves, and a helmet at minimum.

It can also include riding pants, pads, armor, braces, and other types of gear, depending on who you ask.In order to adhere to ATGATT, the rider is going to either suffer during some weather, or tailor the gear for the conditions. I have a light mesh jacket, a medium leather jacket, and a heavy leather jacket.

I also have a few different types of gloves depending on the weather. My helmet has a transition visor that blocks sun during the day and goes clear at night. It also has vents that can be opened for air, or closed for warmth.

These considerations make it easier for me to wear my gear during good weather, down to the lower 30s and up into the 100s

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Is it better to hire a programmer to build your MVP rather than spending time learning to code?

Any professional would tell you - of course its better to hire a professional. Learning to code from scratch could take you months/years So, if you have money for your app project, you should seek the help of programmers who can build you an MVP in 2 - 4 months or even much less.

Depends on the type of app you want, the number of OSs it would work on, etc. If were talking about the cost of MVP, factors that will affect it (just general):Desirable features and their sophistication.Social Media Integration.

The development technologies being used.UX/UI design details.Will there be any monetization/payment functions included?

Execution team number of developers involved, their experience level, required payment and the country where theyre currently situated.So, its all up to you! If youre ready to learn and have time to wait until the MVP is done, then sure, try to become a coding professional yourself.

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Is there a posh American accent?

No, there isnt. The concept of posh seems to be much more prominent in Britain than in the U.

S. The adjective appears to mostly apply to places in America: a posh restaurant, a posh hotel, a posh neighborhood. (And I am not even sure if it should be pronounced with a long or short /o/.

)I did searches for the phrase posh accent in both the Corpus of Contemporary American English and the British National Corpus. It wasnt very common in either source, but showed up about six times as often in the British corpus. I looked at the context for each of the 11 instances of the phrase in the American corpus.

Every one of them, of course, came from an American publication. But in each case, the context for the sentence was about, or set in, England. It was an English person who had the accent.

There was no American context for the phrase posh accent.

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How can I create a dynamic array in C?

The simple answer is to use std::vector.

This have the ability to do most of the work for you including adding elements to the array and resizing. If you want to do is manually then you should use pointer to create and array. You can use smart pointers or classic raw pointers.

Smart pointer are better as they can properly clean up the array when the pointer goes out of scope. If you use the raw pointer, you should remember to properly destroy the array when you are done with the array.example 1 size_t x; std::cin >> x; std::vector array; array.

reserve(x); for(auto i decltype(x)0; i > j; array.emplace_back(j); example 2 size_t x; std::cin >> x; auto array std::make_unique(x); for(auto i decltype(x)0; i > j; arrayi j; example 3 size_t x; std::cin >> x; int* array new arrayx; for(auto i decltype(x)0; i > j; arrayi j; . delete j;