Why Is It Bad to Introduce Yourself to a Friend of Your Friend?

I don't think so. I think that fine. But I am also notoriously not jealous or possessive about things and people.

Some people are.I think sometimes in my life , I didn't realize that my friends had some jealousy issues with me. Whether it was my personality , or whatever .

They had it. Some of them even ended up telling me that they felt invisible when I was around and like no one would talk to them - just wanted to talk to me . One friend of mine even added that anyone who talked to her just wanted to talk about me.

It was terrible. I felt awful, because I never wanted to hurt them like that. I had no idea either, that they felt like that.

I'm not sure if she will get honest with you about her true feelings. But I think it's worth it to ask yourself , if people really seem to like you, or if you pretty much always get the guy you want , or if your friend might feel a little envious of you, for whatever reason. So I think that you know if that's the case, you need to be more aware of the women in your life.

Step back. Let them have their relationships with men without you. Let them have the spotlight as much as possible u2026 try to build your friends up.

Women get absolutely awful when it comes to male attention. They really can turn into harpys over it.Step out of the ring.

Let them win.Be more aware of how you effect people and accept that some women are insecure and jealous and possessive and they don't want to compete with you. But also in the end, your relationships with women mean so much more than any friendship you could have with a guy.

Or any attention you could get.Beauty is a curse in a way.Women have a hard time believing that we are not there to take everything they think they got and men just want in our pants.

I am a fan of just accepting what you are and how you effect the world and trust me, I didn't for a little while - I rebelled against it . I think I couldn't accept that I was anything specialu2026 And I remember one friend screaming at meu201c Don't you know how you effect people??

u201dI didn't. I didn't want to. But looking back I wish I had been more aware , because I hurt some people unintentionally that I never wanted to hurt.

Just by being me.So there comes a time when we have to realize how we effect people. Maybe it's your time.

Why it's bad to introduce yourself to a friend of your friend?

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How can I find my spiritual purpose by reading my birth chart?

the purpose of man according to theologian John Piper is to glorify God by enjoying God forever.

seeking to glorify God may or may not lead you to study astrology. it is most inportant to develop your ability to hear the still small voice of the Divine in order to be guided down the path where you are most evolved in this material world to shine the most divine in you upon the World which also brings you the most enjoyment. i see astrology, when used with an humble ear towards God and a skepticism towards man, helpful in revealing our human potential.

unfortunately, it is all to easy to read astrology with the grave limits of our own mind, inncorect assumptions about the world, and unhealthy desires. this can make astrology a prison instead of a tool for glorification and happiness. kabbalah means to receive and one must be humbly and persistently receptive to the voice of God to recieve truths about themselves and the World.

knowledge is Fire in the Mind and is dangerous to those not prepared for it. it is far better to apply Fire in the Earth, the practical application of Truth, than to know all the realms of angels and demons. Love is the We Fire (Will )application of I Fire (spirit ) in alignment with the All Fire (Truth ).

this Trinity of Fire (Love) involves into the material world as our Self evolves to receive it.astrology is a simplistic map of this unfolding, but without the mind of God, our minds can never understand how to work that map. this Faith precedes Understanding and Faith requires receiving from the still small voice.

almost all evil uses of astrology and such angelic sciences are the agent trying to empower themselves in away that breaks this Trinity of Fire. to suppress the ego, misalign with Truth, give up choice, etc. or to put the Air first understanding before belief.

what we do know to be true is:4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud 5 or rude. It does not demand its own way.

It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. 6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. 7 Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

8 Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever! 9 Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture!

10 But when the time of perfection comes, these partial things will become useless. 1 Corinthians 13 NLTto study astrology without love is a waste of time and a distraction from finding ones spiritual purpose.

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What should you never say to a librarian?

u201cI just stuck the book back on the shelf.u201d u201cOr, just put it anyplace.u201d I have a very dear friend that is a librarian.

Trust me, you may have placed that book back in exactly the right place, but if you tell a librarian that, chances are they will still recheck. When a meer mortal tells a librarian that they just stuck that book back on the shelf, alarm bells go off. The books on those shelves need to look like teeth, all standing straight in a line.

Sure, some will be shorter and others taller, but they will still stand in a line. So, you just stuck that book back on the shelf? Well, did you really put it back where it belongs?

Not just on the same shelf but exactly where it is supposed to be. In most cases, the librarians may prefer that you just put the books back on a shelf of books to be re-shelved rather than doing it yourself. If youu2019ve ever worked in clothing, you know that much of the time, it is easier to re-hang stuff that has been tried on yourself than have a customer do it.

Well, librarians are like that with books.u201cI canu2019t find the answer.u201d To me, librarians are like magicians that can look at a top hat and make a bunny rabbit appear.

There is an answer to every question. You just have to know what and how to ask and where to look. Librarians are trained to find those answers, trained to follow the trail from point A to point B and so on.

They will find the answer or more likely help you to find the resource with the answer. Sometimes, it is truly like watching a magician at work. You only deal with books and how much trouble can that be?

Two big mistakes here - Librarians deal with documents, with artifacts, with a plethora of materials. In terms of books, decisions have to be made as to whether or not a book is archived or stays in the active collection or removed. Other materials?

Yep. Documents, old newspapers, magazines, and other materials that will or should go into special collections. Art work that will be cataloged and shared.

And books, sometimes worth thousands of dollars. Librarians need to be aware of what is in their collection, when materials become out dated or inappropriate and should be removed. One college had built a new library.

The collection, of course, had to be moved. And there, sitting on the shelves available for any student to check out, they found first editions of several books that had been dropped from the catalog of books. It is understandable that hidden among the hundreds of thousand of books these old volumes had gone unnoticed, but donu2019t think that librarians donu2019t deal with some tricky issues.

And, finally, Shhhhh. Librarians have that down to a science.

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Can you write a short friendship story?

Kavya : Dont you dare do it again . Or I wont ever talk to you again .Soha : ( Crying badly ) But you tell then what should I do .

Just look at it , this piece of paper has destroyed my life .The paper in her hand said Its Positive . This was a medical report , A report which said that Soha was HIV ( Aids ) positive .

She didnt knew how she got infected , a month back when she felt weak she went for a medical test and this was the result . From the last two weeks when people near her came to know about it , they started maintaing gap , treated her rudely , even her family wasnt ready to accept her after this . Everyone was pointing finger on her character that she must have sexual relationships with different guys .

She was so tired and exhausted of listening all this that she tried to commit suicide but at the right time her childhood best friend cum neighbour cum soul sister came for her rescue and saved her life .Kavya : ( while hugging Soha ) How could anything destroy your life when I am with you dear . I love you no matter what .

You said we will share everything then how could you have all this pain alone .Soha : ( Still crying ) But how ? We dont have a solution at all .

Kavya : ( Wiping her tears ) We have , I have solution to all your problems . I have talked to my brother about this , his friend is a doctor we will go to him and get you treated , you will be fine soon .Soha : ( Having hope in her eyes ) I will be fine sure ?

I m not wrong or charactless , you know na Kavya ?Kavya : Shhhh. Now you will prove yourself to me .

I know you more than you know yourself , more than this society . You will be absolutely fine and now promise me you wont do anything like this again ? Swear on our friendship ?

Soha : I promise I wont do anything like this . I wont lose hope nor be a loser . I will live proudly.

I m lucky I had a friend like you .Kavya : Thats my girl . We both are lucky to have each other .

Now smile .She smiled , they both hugged each other . Once again they both became each others strength when the world was against them .

The two small girls playfully holded hands and became friends today being adult girls did justice with every promise they made to each other .Note 1 : Friendship has no religion . Just two pure souls .

Note 2 : A sick person doesnt only need medicines but also a caring hand , a loving hug and a friendly soul . If the disease is not communicable dont throw these people into dark holes . Note 3 : Never judge a person when you dont know their story .

Maybe you havent felt the pain they are suffering everyday .Thanks for giving your precious time to read my words .